basically thinks he is perfect and could do no wrong.. we have all been there. It has been about 3 months and things have been going very well, in fact he offered her a key to his house and in October he is taking her home to a wedding....
HUGE DEAL right??
Well 2 weeks ago they had "the talk"... this was about the same time as the wedding invite... it was concluded (from both sides) that they are together, exclusive, she is "his girl", etc... Still makes her smile when she talks about it. However, last weekend the "title" came up. "What am I when you introduce me to your friends and family".. his response..."Well you're my girl, but not my girlfriend." OUCH! KICK IN THE FACE!
If any guys are reading this, what is the hang up on calling a girl your "girlfriend"? You aren't with anyone else, you want to be with her, you are already in some capacity "with her"... so whats up dudes? What is it about that title that freaks you out so much? and what are you waiting for?? How do we earn that title?? As a girl I am confused as well, but as a person who has been deathly afraid of commitment before, I am seeing both sides..
They talked about it a lot and she says she can be fine with what he is giving her, which is a good thing.. if it were really true. I have since witnessed her finding more and more faults of his, picking at things, not saying his name every 5 seconds (like usual).. is she sabotaging this because of a title? and on his end, if he really likes her, is it worth losing her instead of admitting what I am sure he feels and wants but is scared?
Oh the joys of relationships... (oh wait..we can't use that word or the world will end :)
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